‘Another Dad Said That Seeing Isobel…Had Given Them Hope’- Paul on his daughter Isobel

Paul recalls his daughter Isobel’s birth. He and his wife were the calmest couple in the hospital. Another couple in a neighboring cot even told him ‘she has you wrapped around her little finger’.

This is certainly true, Paul and Isobel are very close. However, their relationship was so powerful that his wife had to remind her that she was there too! He certainly loves Isabel to bits.

Paul does admit that as a parent, he definitely overdid thing.

‘Feeding tube or not, we were going to meet people.’

Paul recalls the many episodes of mindless joy of having Isobel. A friend once told him: ‘If anything, children with disabilities are even more loved.’ Paul certainly feels that way.

However, being a dad to a heart child does come with its share of hardship. He suggests that being a dad brings out so many good qualities, but it can be tiring. That’s when some ‘less desirable attributes’ show forth.  He also had some darker thoughts at the start, but over time, they subsided.

Paul loves documenting his and Isobel’s life, with wonky videos and lots of photographs.

To read more about Paul, click here.

Little Heart Matter has been a wonderful resource, always accessible despite being so busy. We have gained so much from the 2 AGMs we’ve made it to. At this years Villa Park event, another dad said that seeing Isobel (then aged 2) at the 2012 AGM had given them hope going forward with their own pregnancy. That sort of comment makes it all worthwhile.

 

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